4/4/2016
"Marley & Me: Life and Love With the World's Worst Dog" by John Grogan
Copyright 2005, 291 pages
Nonfiction, memoir
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One word: classic. I mainly chose this book because there's no way I would ever forget about it. With other books, even ones I enjoyed just as much, after the years go by the little details would begin to blend and blur. Sometimes even the plot would start missing some pieces in memory. There's no way I'd be able to sit down and talk about those other books without re-reading it from start to finish. With
Marley & Me, I don't even think it's possible to forget. I can still even recite Marley's antiques from jumping, walking in two legs on the pavement with his two other legs inside the car, swallowing a gold necklace, dragging a restaurant table across the street and... you get the point. I read this book back in 2008 or so, and it burned at the back of my mind. But then again, I'm a huge animal lover. I dedicated five years - now six - to study, research, observe and discuss canine behavior, psychology and training. I spoke to and learn from breeders, behaviorists and regular owners around the world. I'm also pretty involved in animal welfare movements, and always made sure to donate a little something to local shelters at least every year. Oh and on top of all: I'm a proud dog mama.
In short: I'm either you, or someone you know.
ASPCA estimates that 37-47% of American households have dogs. That's somewhere between 70-80 million dogs - excluding the ones still waiting to be bought or adopted. Do these people love their dogs as much as The Grogans love Marley, there's no measure of that. But my point is: this book is right up the alley to a whole lot of people (at least in America). That's probably a huge - if not the only - reason why it's a big hit. Don't get me wrong: I love Grogan's writing. You can tell he's a talented author. I love his detailed retelling of each one event in his life with Marley. To his credit, this book did make me laugh, reminisce, nod in sympathy, and - at the very end - cry my eyes out. But now that I step back and think about it, it's sort of an "empty" book. Like those teenage novels about having a crush who's way more popular than you, and then ending up with a childhood friend instead. I mean, it's a beautiful tribute to a wonderful companion, but I did not learn anything reading it. If there's even any message to take away, readers have to really dig deep and think it through. Same goes with those teenage novels I stuffed my brain with when I was thirteen. It's not 100% void of meaning or life lessons, but it's not exactly teaching me anything valuable either. It's a story that I can relate to. Period. But still, Grogan's writing is not half bad. So we all came to some sort of an unspoken, unanimous agreement that "everyone loves
Marley & Me". And all is well.
Until the movie came out.
In 2008, David Frankel released a movie adaptation with the exact same title on Christmas day. The movie set a record for the largest Christmas day box office "ever" with $14.75 million in ticket sales (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marley_%26_Me_%28film%29). So it seems like people really do love Marley. However, I suppose as we all know, they don't like the movie. As reflected in its reviews and ratings,
Marley & Me didn't gather as much praise as the novel did. The highest rating it got was 7.1/10 in IMDb, and that's already generous seeing as Rotten Tomatoes only gave it 63% - an average of 6/10 rating from 138 reviews. If I could borrow a movie critic's words, Todd McCarthy from
Variety - in my opinion - sums it all up real well: "as broad and obvious as it could be, but delivers on its own terms
thanks to sparky chemistry between its sunny blond stars, Owen Wilson
and Jennifer Aniston, and the unabashed emotion-milking of the final
reel. Fox has a winner here, likely to be irresistible to almost
everyone but cats". I watched the movie twice myself. Once in 2009, once more in around 2012. I adopted my dog in 2010. When I watched it the first time, I walked away from the TV screen completely puzzled. "That is not at all the novel I read!" I thought. But then, I realize that it
is. I hated the movie because it is exactly the novel: word by word, chapter to chapter. When we remove the imagery, word choice, attention to detail and writing style, all that's left is a chain of things that simply happened. Not things that bring light into important unpopular topics, things that broke a common misconception or stereotype, or even things that made us step back and think. They simply happened. They also simply happened in the book, but there were a lot more to it when there are words to paint the picture. In a motion picture, again, it simply happened.
The scene where Marley got an entire beach closed down was an example. In the book, we get a great detail from John's perspective. About how he was just sitting there enjoying the scenery when another dog owner near him yelled: "HEY! Watch your dog!" and he saw Marley squatting right in the middle of the water. There was this tickling description of how Marley looked up, "as if he's saying a prayer", as John raced from his end of the beach to the shallow waters. And as John finally stood next to his dog, poop bag in his hands, he found that Marley had diarrhea. He apologized, under the pressure of a ton of displeased dog owners, and the beach was closed off. I still giggle writing that, as I did reading that years and years ago. In the movie, that same scene was very dry. The sun is shining, the waters calm, and a girl in bikini half-heartedly yelled the "watch your dog" part. John sprung up from where he's sitting and raced to the water, yelling out "Marley! Marley!", and then there's this loud comical fart noise. The people leave, John collected Marley, and he left too. That's all. I can also write a lengthy paragraph about the dog training class scene, but it's basically the same thing: there's no thrill left to it in motion picture.
However, when the same movie came up on TV in 2012, I had to leave nearing the last scene. I already know what the last scene is like, and I know *this time* I'm surely gonna cry. I still hate the movie. But watching it as a dog owner, I became emotionally invested. I might even tolerate the plot's dryness a little bit just because the scenes made me nod a little more, smile a little more, and cry a little more. Not because I'm seeing good cinematography. I'm just seeing myself, and that's kind of what I want to see in movies. All in all, I would still recommend the novel to friends if they're looking for a light, fun read. But if anyone asks, I would still say it should have never been made into a movie.